These things of having to escape our infamous power-cuts forces a girl to meet all sorts of weirdos. Now, if that girl is keeping an open mind, there’s so much that she can take.
What I’ve discovered is; there aren’t many single guys out there anymore. I mean single and unattached. Most men are already married with kids or are in a relationship with some woman or have kids with women they don’t “talk to anymore”, they are still hang-up on their exes, they have demanding girlfriends and/or their relationships have issues. Interestingly, they consider themselves “searching” and mingling.
I asked one guy, “So, do you have a girlfriend?” his reply, “Well, I am not married…” Being a guys-girl, I can see through all this BS. My manners may not allow me to actually utter, “Nigger please!” but my mind screams so. I always listen to the guys or bitch about the drama they can’t take from their women and the girls whine about how their men treat them terribly. In my mind. I ask; why not walk away? Maybe it isn’t that easy, maybe they wanna have their cake and eat it too.
I can’t say I am searching, actually, I am not. I have been single for a while that I am actually enjoying it. I free. I don’t get those annoying questions of, “Where are you? When can I see you? Who is the idiot that just liked your status?” I have discovered so many interesting things about myself that had probably been overshadowed. I love myself and I love (good looking) men.
However, it would be lovely to meet a single (good looking) guy; no kids, no ex-issues, or thinking about leaving their girlfriend. One who has come to terms with his singleness. Someone I could have a sensible conversation with that wouldn’t constitute to grabbing my thigh or butt.
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